Clingy

Men,
When you think your lady is being too clingy, what it really means is this: At that moment, she needs you a lot more than you need her, so just realize that she's depending on you, and needs to know that you'll be there. Don't brush her off and tell her she's being too clingy, because that will only make her cry and think that she depends on you more than she should. I originally thought that men liked being depended on, liked to be needed, because everyone likes to be needed. But apparently, that doesn't always go the way it should. So, Men, when she wants another kiss, or she needs to walk you to your car and get an extra long, close hug, don't give her an excuse. Give her a bigger kiss than she expects, tip her back in a tango dip, hug her for an extra 10 seconds, and run your fingers through her hair, telling her how special she is to you. That's the way to fix a clingy situation.
With affection,
A concerned girlfriend
P.S.
The way to respond to this post, is also definately not anger. You haven't done anything wrong, it could just be handled better, which would make everyone including you happier.

1 comments:

NYPRBLUE said...

Very nice. Thoughtful. Sweet.
And heartening to recognize that, as a man, I've never been done any of those things. Common sense, really.
Plus, sometimes we're needy, too.

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